The further you are away from privilege the more virtue you have to exhibit to get the same amount of reward of one of privilege. Just image if Trump would have been black and exhibited the same (at least to Christians) immoral behavior. He would not have had a shot in hell at getting elected.
It’s bad growing up as well. Virtuous people treat you worse the further you are away from privilege (at least that’s been my and many others experience). The friendship groups that are accepting often revolve around vices like drinking or drugs.